Practical tools that help you build a healthier stronger marriage!

Practical tools that help you build a healthier stronger marriage!

Practical tools that help you build a healthier stronger marriage!

Marriage is hard, but healing, growth, and connection are possible not just for surviving, but thriving. That’s why we created Better Marriage University.

Join the one year journey of community, coaching, and courses.

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OUR PASSION

The Silence, the Distance, the Same Fights, It Doesn’t Have to Stay This Way

For many years Irene and I faced struggles that we never talked about. We want you to know that you are not alone and that you no longer have to suffer in silence. Here at Better Marriage University we have carefully created a safe, trusted space where we can cry together, laugh together and grow together as we heal in community. 

The Heart of Better Marriage University:

Create a safe place for couples to heal and get healthy

Get real life tools to navigate the toughest marriage moments

Forgive what has been hard to forget and heal from all the hurting 

Discover a marriage of love, laughter, and longevity 

Don’t wait another day for a healthier, happier marriage! 

Whether your marriage is struggling or striving, filled with pain or passion, through the hurting times and the happiest moments, a better marriage is not earned, it’s learned!


It's time to begin the journey to a Better Marriage!

Whether your marriage is struggling or striving, filled with pain or passion, through the hurting times and the happiest moments, a better marriage is not earned, it’s learned!


It's time to begin the journey to a Better Marriage!

OUR PURPOSE

Unleash the Power of a Better Marriage

Break The Pattern

Nearly 1 in 3 marriages ends in divorce often citing “irreconcilable differences.”

Children of divorce are 35% more likely to divorce themselves and 50% more likely to marry someone from a divorced home.

Divorce doesn’t just end a marriage it echoes through a family.

You can be the one who changes the story for generations to come.

Rewrite the Story

The good news? Nearly 80% of couples who actively seek support and apply structured tools rebuild lasting connection and create a lasting legacy.

Every 13 seconds a marriage ends in divorce — but every day, couples like you choose restoration instead.

Your decision to fight for your marriage will rewrite your family’s future.

Your decision to fight for your marriage will rewrite your family's future.

Healing Starts Here

What if your marriage could be the moment your family story changes forever?

At Better Marriage University, you’ll find the tools, truth, and community to make it happen.

Here at Better Marriage University, you’ll find the tools, truth, and community to make it happen.

Heal your home and change the story for generations to come.

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Meet Your Professors

Jimmy and Irene Rollins are the founders of Better Marriage University and best selling authors of Two = One: A Marriage Equation for Love, Laughter, and Longevity. With over 26 years of marriage, their story of overcoming addiction, broken communication, and near-divorce has become a catalyst for helping couples heal and grow using a mix of biblical truth, personal story, and emotionally healthy practices backed by both faith and science.

As bestselling authors, speakers, relationship and emotional health coaches, Jimmy and Irene serve as trusted voices in the marriage space, equipping couples with biblical wisdom, lived experience, neuroscience and emotional health-backed tools. Irene is also the author of a book Reframe Your Shame: Experience Freedom From What Holds You Back, a raw journey through her healing and recovery.

Through their candid storytelling, faith-filled insights, and proven frameworks, they help couples move from pretending to powerful, from surviving to thriving.

OUR COMMUNITY

Coaching That Works in Real Life

Marriage doesn’t come with a manual. But it can come with a syllabus for success. At Better Marriage University you’re joining a movement of couples choosing healing over hiding.

Led by Jimmy & Irene Rollins, who turned years of pain into purpose, the BMU Community gives you the same tools, truth, and hope that rebuilt their marriage and can rebuild yours.

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Your Investment In a Better Marriage Begins Today!

Professional counseling is powerful and often expensive. BMU gives you ongoing support, proven tools, and real transformation for far less, helping you take immediate steps toward a healthier marriage.

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WHAT’S INCLUDED IN THE COMMUNITY

Live Online Date Nights w/ the BMU Community

Monthly Online Coaching Sessions

LIVE Online Q&A

Marriage Monday Devo

Exclusive Marriage Content

Private & Small Group Coaching Sessions

Private BMU Facebook Community

  • REAL TOOLS

    REAL HOPE

    REAL COUPLES

    REAL SOLUTIONS

    REAL TOOLS

    REAL HOPE

    REAL COUPLES

    REAL SOLUTIONS

    REAL TOOLS

    REAL HOPE

    REAL COUPLES

    REAL SOLUTIONS

    REAL TOOLS

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A healthier, happier marriage—starts right here

A Healthier, Happier Marriage
Starts Right Here

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A Safe Space for Real Healing

At BMU, you don’t have to pretend. This is where you bring the hard stuff—shame, struggle, and secrets—and trade them for truth, grace, and growth. No judgment. Just healing.

A Safe Space For Real Healing

At BMU, you don’t have to pretend. This is where you bring the hard stuff—shame, struggle, and secrets—and trade them for truth, grace, and growth. No judgment. Just healing.

Real Help From Real People

Led by Jimmy and Irene Rollins, BMU brings together trusted marriage mentors who teach from both wounds and wins. You’re learning from real stories, not just theory.

A Community That Won’t Settle

Whether online or in person, you’ll find couples here who are done faking it and ready to do the work—together. This is where real change starts.

Biblically Powered - Practically Driven

BMU equips you with practical, Bible-based tools—so you can communicate clearly, repair conflict, and rebuild trust starting today.

Love. Laughter. Longevity.

We help you replace tension with trust, silence with laughter, and short-term fixes with forever foundations.

Love. Laughter. Longevity.

We help you replace tension with trust, silence with laughter, and short-term fixes with forever foundations.

Why wait for things to get better?

If you always do the things you've done, you'll always get the things you've gotten.

Do something different for a Better Marriage now!

STORIES OF SUCCESS

The Only University Where Pillow Fights Count as Homework

Couples sharing how their marriage has benefited from the knowledge and tools gained at Better Marriage University.

  • “We can’t believe that we actually like each other!”

    “We thought we were too far gone, but Jimmy and Irene reminded us there is hope. We’re finally talking again, not just living in silence.”

    Jen & Trevor

  • “We learned how to get honest and we can’t believe what we have today!”

    “Your marriage will always be as sick as your secrets. That one truth broke chains in our relationship.”

    Tim & Lacey

  • “We learned that our differences didn’t have equal divorce!”

    “We used to fight over everything. Now, we can disagree without it becoming a war. Emotional intelligence taught us the goal isn’t to think alike, but to think together.”

    John & Annabelle

  • “We discovered that getting help equals healing!”

    “Shame almost destroyed us. But instead of hiding, we faced it. When we did, it turned isolation into connection and gave us real hope.”

    Lisa & Tony

  • “We were tired of fighting and can’t believe that we’re now having fun.”

    “Love never gives up. Recovery was hard, but it made our marriage stronger than we ever imagined.”

    Brice & Cherri

  • “Jimmy & Irene helped us to stop pretending and now we’re on our way towards happiness.”

     “For years we looked like the perfect couple on Sundays but barely spoke the rest of the week. BMU gave us the courage to tell the truth. Once we stopped hiding behind our image and got honest with each other, God started rebuilding what shame had destroyed.”

    Marcus & Dana

  • “I can't believe that our differences have stopped dividing us.”

    “We used to see everything as a competition — who was right, who worked harder, who cared more. Better Marriage University helped us realize our strengths weren’t meant to compete but to complete. We finally learned how to be on the same team again.”

    Caleb & Rina

  • “We were taught that freedom only comes when we get real.”

    “We didn’t even realize how much resentment had built up until the sessions on secrets and emotional honesty. The phrase ‘your marriage will always be as sick as your secrets’ changed everything for us. Confession brought connection — and for the first time in years, we feel safe with each other.”

    Derrick & Alisha

  • “We found joy again.”

    “We thought recovery meant just surviving. But Jimmy and Irene showed us that healing can be joyful. We laugh again. We pray together. We dream again. Better Marriage University helped us believe that love, laughter, and longevity really are possible.”

    Sam & Evelyn

  • “We can’t believe that we actually like each other!”

    “We thought we were too far gone, but Jimmy and Irene reminded us there is hope. We’re finally talking again, not just living in silence.”

    Jen & Trevor

  • “We learned how to get honest and we can’t believe what we have today!”

    “Your marriage will always be as sick as your secrets. That one truth broke chains in our relationship.”

    Tim & Lacey

  • “We learned that our differences didn’t have equal divorce!”

    “We used to fight over everything. Now, we can disagree without it becoming a war. Emotional intelligence taught us the goal isn’t to think alike, but to think together.”

    John & Annabelle

  • “We discovered that getting help equals healing!”

    “Shame almost destroyed us. But instead of hiding, we faced it. When we did, it turned isolation into connection and gave us real hope.”

    Lisa & Tony

  • “We were tired of fighting and can’t believe that we’re now having fun.”

    “Love never gives up. Recovery was hard, but it made our marriage stronger than we ever imagined.”

    Brice & Cherri

  • “Jimmy & Irene helped us to stop pretending and now we’re on our way towards happiness.”

     “For years we looked like the perfect couple on Sundays but barely spoke the rest of the week. BMU gave us the courage to tell the truth. Once we stopped hiding behind our image and got honest with each other, God started rebuilding what shame had destroyed.”

    Marcus & Dana

  • “I can't believe that our differences have stopped dividing us.”

    “We used to see everything as a competition — who was right, who worked harder, who cared more. Better Marriage University helped us realize our strengths weren’t meant to compete but to complete. We finally learned how to be on the same team again.”

    Caleb & Rina

  • “We were taught that freedom only comes when we get real.”

    “We didn’t even realize how much resentment had built up until the sessions on secrets and emotional honesty. The phrase ‘your marriage will always be as sick as your secrets’ changed everything for us. Confession brought connection — and for the first time in years, we feel safe with each other.”

    Derrick & Alisha

  • “We found joy again.”

    “We thought recovery meant just surviving. But Jimmy and Irene showed us that healing can be joyful. We laugh again. We pray together. We dream again. Better Marriage University helped us believe that love, laughter, and longevity really are possible.”

    Sam & Evelyn

  • “We can’t believe that we actually like each other!”

    “We thought we were too far gone, but Jimmy and Irene reminded us there is hope. We’re finally talking again, not just living in silence.”

    Jen & Trevor

  • “We learned how to get honest and we can’t believe what we have today!”

    “Your marriage will always be as sick as your secrets. That one truth broke chains in our relationship.”

    Tim & Lacey

  • “We learned that our differences didn’t have equal divorce!”

    “We used to fight over everything. Now, we can disagree without it becoming a war. Emotional intelligence taught us the goal isn’t to think alike, but to think together.”

    John & Annabelle

  • “We discovered that getting help equals healing!”

    “Shame almost destroyed us. But instead of hiding, we faced it. When we did, it turned isolation into connection and gave us real hope.”

    Lisa & Tony

  • “We were tired of fighting and can’t believe that we’re now having fun.”

    “Love never gives up. Recovery was hard, but it made our marriage stronger than we ever imagined.”

    Brice & Cherri

  • “Jimmy & Irene helped us to stop pretending and now we’re on our way towards happiness.”

     “For years we looked like the perfect couple on Sundays but barely spoke the rest of the week. BMU gave us the courage to tell the truth. ”

    Marcus & Dana

  • “I can't believe that our differences have stopped dividing us.”

    “We used to see everything as a competition who was right, who worked harder, who cared more. BMU helped us realize our strengths weren’t meant to compete but to complete. ”

    Caleb & Rina

  • “We found joy again.”

    “We thought recovery meant just surviving. But Jimmy and Irene showed us that healing can be joyful. We laugh again. We pray together. We are dreaming again.”

    Sam & Evelyn

  • “We can’t believe that we actually like each other!”

    “We thought we were too far gone, but Jimmy and Irene reminded us there is hope. We’re finally talking again, not just living in silence.”

    Jen & Trevor

  • “We learned how to get honest and we can’t believe what we have today!”

    “Your marriage will always be as sick as your secrets. That one truth broke chains in our relationship.”

    Tim & Lacey

  • “We learned that our differences didn’t have equal divorce!”

    “We used to fight over everything. Now, we can disagree without it becoming a war. Emotional intelligence taught us the goal isn’t to think alike, but to think together.”

    John & Annabelle

  • “We discovered that getting help equals healing!”

    “Shame almost destroyed us. But instead of hiding, we faced it. When we did, it turned isolation into connection and gave us real hope.”

    Lisa & Tony

  • “We were tired of fighting and can’t believe that we’re now having fun.”

    “Love never gives up. Recovery was hard, but it made our marriage stronger than we ever imagined.”

    Brice & Cherri

  • “Jimmy & Irene helped us to stop pretending and now we’re on our way towards happiness.”

     “For years we looked like the perfect couple on Sundays but barely spoke the rest of the week. BMU gave us the courage to tell the truth. ”

    Marcus & Dana

  • “I can't believe that our differences have stopped dividing us.”

    “We used to see everything as a competition who was right, who worked harder, who cared more. BMU helped us realize our strengths weren’t meant to compete but to complete. ”

    Caleb & Rina

  • “We found joy again.”

    “We thought recovery meant just surviving. But Jimmy and Irene showed us that healing can be joyful. We laugh again. We pray together. We are dreaming again.”

    Sam & Evelyn

Frequently Asked Questions

Frequently Asked Questions

Do we need to be in crisis to benefit from BMU?

Who is BMU for?

What if my spouse doesn’t want to participate?

Does my spouse need a separate account?

Can other couples be apart?

Can other couples be a part?

Is BMU different from traditional marriage counseling?

What if we can’t make the live calls?

What if we fall behind?

Is there a contract or commitment?

What makes BMU worth $97/month?

If you have any additional questions about how Better Marriage University works you can always reach out to:


better@bettermarriageuniversity.com

Resources

Resources

Discover powerful insights, tools, and strategies about how bad marriage became better and how the pain of yesterday has turned into the purpose of today through Jimmy and Irene’s journey. There's no such thing as a perfect marriage or a perfect person but there is such thing as a free person and a healed marriage.