BMU gives couples real tools, real coaching, and a real community. Whether you're rebuilding from rock bottom or just want something better than fine, there's a plan that fits.
OUR PASSION
The Silence, the Distance, the Same Fights, It Doesn’t Have to Stay This Way
For many years Irene and I faced struggles that we never talked about. We want you to know that you are not alone and that you no longer have to suffer in silence. Here at Better Marriage University we have carefully created a safe, trusted space where we can cry together, laugh together and grow together as we heal in community.
The Heart of Better Marriage University:
Create a safe place for couples to heal and get healthy
Get real life tools to navigate the toughest marriage moments
Forgive what has been hard to forget and heal from all the hurting
Discover a marriage of love, laughter, and longevity
Don’t wait another day for a healthier, happier marriage!
OUR PURPOSE
Unleash the Power of a Better Marriage
Break The Pattern
Nearly 1 in 3 marriages ends in divorce often citing “irreconcilable differences.”
Children of divorce are 35% more likely to divorce themselves and 50% more likely to marry someone from a divorced home.
Divorce doesn’t just end a marriage it echoes through a family.
You can be the one who changes the story for generations to come.
Rewrite the Story
The good news? Nearly 80% of couples who actively seek support and apply structured tools rebuild lasting connection and create a lasting legacy.
Every 13 seconds a marriage ends in divorce. But every day, couples like you choose restoration instead.
Healing Starts Here
What if your marriage could be the moment your family story changes forever?
Heal your home and change the story for generations to come.
Meet Your Professors
Jimmy and Irene Rollins are the founders of Better Marriage University and best selling authors of Two = One: A Marriage Equation for Love, Laughter, and Longevity. With over 26 years of marriage, their story of overcoming addiction, broken communication, and near-divorce has become a catalyst for helping couples heal and grow using a mix of biblical truth, personal story, and emotionally healthy practices backed by both faith and science.
As bestselling authors, speakers, relationship and emotional health coaches, Jimmy and Irene serve as trusted voices in the marriage space, equipping couples with biblical wisdom, lived experience, neuroscience and emotional health-backed tools. Irene is also the author of a book Reframe Your Shame: Experience Freedom From What Holds You Back, a raw journey through her healing and recovery.
Through their candid storytelling, real-life insights, and proven frameworks, they help couples move from pretending to powerful, from surviving to thriving.
OUR COMMUNITY
Coaching That Works in Real Life
Marriage doesn’t come with a manual. But it can come with a syllabus for success. At Better Marriage University you’re joining a movement of couples choosing healing over hiding.
Led by Jimmy & Irene Rollins, who turned years of pain into purpose, the BMU Community gives you the same tools, truth, and hope that rebuilt their marriage and can rebuild yours.
Choose Your Path to a Better Marriage
Every plan gives you real tools and a real community. Pick the level of coaching that fits your season.
Marriage Toolkit
Built for couples who want real tools without a big commitment.
Coaching Circle
RecommendedBuilt for couples who want face time with a coach in the room.
Real Help From Real People
Led by Jimmy and Irene Rollins, BMU brings together trusted marriage mentors who teach from both wounds and wins. You’re learning from real stories, not just theory.
A Community That Won’t Settle
Whether online or in person, you’ll find couples here who are done faking it and ready to do the work—together. This is where real change starts.
Why wait for things to get better?
If you always do the things you've done, you'll always get the things you've gotten.
STORIES OF SUCCESS
The Only University Where Pillow Fights Count as Homework
Couples sharing how their marriage has benefited from the knowledge and tools gained at Better Marriage University.
Do we need to be in crisis to benefit from BMU?
Who is BMU for?
What if my spouse doesn’t want to participate?
Does my spouse need a separate account?
Is BMU different from traditional marriage counseling?
What if we can’t make the live calls?
What if we fall behind?
Is there a contract or commitment?
How do I know which plan is right for us?
If you have any additional questions about how Better Marriage University works you can always reach out to:
better@bettermarriageuniversity.com
Discover powerful insights, tools, and strategies about how bad marriage became better and how the pain of yesterday has turned into the purpose of today through Jimmy and Irene’s journey. There's no such thing as a perfect marriage or a perfect person but there is such thing as a free person and a healed marriage.
